25/05/15 21:11:14: Gurbani Uncle: A very inspiring article worth reading:
Once there was a man who did not make it to university. So, his mother got him a wife. After the marriage, he worked as a teacher in a primary school. Due to the lack of experience, he was squashed by the students in less than a week.
When he returned home, his wife dried his tears. She comforted him with these words. 'When one is too full, he could either pour it out what's in him or he just could not pour it out at all. You should not be too sad about it. Probably there is a more suitable job waiting for you out there.'
Later on, he found another job and not for so long, he was fired due to his slowness. This time, the wife commented. 'There are always people who are skilful and non skilful. Some have experience from their years of work. As for you, you were in school all this while. So, how could you acquire these needed skills?'
He went for a number of jobs but never stayed long in those jobs. Each time, he would return home with a dejected spirit. His wife would always comfort him and never for once, she was disappointed or resentful.
He was in his thirties when he aquired a flair in languages. He became a counselor in a school for the deaf and mute. Later on, he opened a school for the disabled. A few years later, he set up chain stores in different cities and provinces selling apparatus & equipment for the disabled. He became a multi-millionaire. He was John Doe!
One day he asked his wife. 'When I was looking bleak at my own future, what's the reason that you have so much faith in me?'
His wife gave him a very simple reply. She said, 'When a piece of land is not suitable for planting wheat, we could try planting beans. If the beans are not growing well, we could try planting fruits or gourds. If the vegetation is not economical, we can instead scatter buckwheat seeds. These seeds will one day bloom into flowers. On this land itself, there will be one seed that will germinate and grow.'
After having listened to the wife's explanation, he cried. His wife's faith, love, patience, and persistence in him is liken to the one seed in the land. This is the seed that persists and creates the miracle on this piece of land.
"In this world, there's no one person who is useless. It is just that they need to get positioned themselves firmly in right place"
Having read this story, pls do not ignore it. Share it and you will find yourself very happy and be blessed.
27/05/15 14:41:43: Gurbani Uncle: लिखा था राशि में आज खजाना मिल सकता हे
की अचानक गली में दोस्त पुराना दिख गया
28/05/15 14:38:09: Gurbani Uncle: Beautiful letter written by a father to his son 👌
Following is a letter to his son from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster cum Child Psychologist.
The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents.!
This applies to daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their children.
Dear son ,
I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons
1. Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early.
2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.
3. What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. Remember the following as you go through life
1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I.
To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really likes you. You have to be careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.
2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess.
Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore, or when you lose what/who you love most.
3.Life is short.
When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.
4.Love is but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.
Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
5.A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.
One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags!
6.I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.
7.You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.
8. I have bought lotteries for fifteen years, but I could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.
Your Dad
30/05/15 08:59:31: Gurbani Uncle: सफलता के 20 मँत्र " 👏
👏1.खुद की कमाई से कम
खर्च हो ऐसी जिन्दगी
बनाओ..!
👏2. दिन मेँ कम से कम
3 लोगो की प्रशंसा करो..!
👏3. खुद की भुल स्वीकारने
मेँ कभी भी संकोच मत
करो..!
👏4. किसी के सपनो पर हँसो
मत..!
👏5. आपके पीछे खडे व्यक्ति
को भी कभी कभी आगे
जाने का मौका दो..!
👏6. रोज हो सके तो सुरज को
उगता हुए देखे..!
👏7. खुब जरुरी हो तभी कोई
चीज उधार लो..!
👏8. किसी के पास से कुछ
जानना हो तो विवेक से
दो बार...पुछो..!
👏9. कर्ज और शत्रु को कभी
बडा मत होने दो..!
👏10. ईश्वर पर पुरा भरोसा
रखो..!
👏11. प्रार्थना करना कभी
मत भुलो,प्रार्थना मेँ
अपार शक्ति होती है..!
👏12. अपने काम से मतलब
रखो..!
👏13. समय सबसे ज्यादा
कीमती है, इसको फालतु
कामो मेँ खर्च मत करो..
👏14. जो आपके पास है, उसी
मेँ खुश रहना सिखो..!
👏15. बुराई कभी भी किसी कि
भी मत करो,
क्योकिँ बुराई नाव मेँ
छेद समान है,बुराई
छोटी हो बडी नाव तो
डुबो ही देती है..!
👏16. हमेशा सकारात्मक सोच
रखो..!
👏17. हर व्यक्ति एक हुनर
लेकर पैदा होता है बस
उस हुनर को दुनिया के
सामने लाओ..!
👏18. कोई काम छोटा नही
होता हर काम बडा होता
है जैसे कि सोचो जो
काम आप कर रहे हो
अगर वह काम
आप नही करते हो तो
दुनिया पर क्या असर
होता..?
👏19. सफलता उनको ही
मिलती है जो कुछ
करते है
👏20. कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ
खोना नही बल्कि कुछ
करना पडता है
01/06/15 17:00:49: Gurbani Uncle: पानी को बर्फ में,
बदलने में वक्त लगता है।
ढले हुए सूरज को,
निकलने में वक्त लगता है।
थोड़ा धीरज रख,
थोड़ा और जोर लगाता रह,
किस्मत के जंग लगे दरवाजे को
खुलने में वक्त लगता है।
कुछ देर रुकने के बाद
फिर से चल पड़ना दोस्त,
हर ठोकर के बाद
संभलने में वक्त लगता है।
बिखरेगी फिर वही चमक
तेरे वजूद से तू महसूस करना,
टूटे हुए मन को
संवरने में थोड़ा वक्त लगता है।
जो तूने कहा
कर दिखायेगा रख यक़ीन,
गरजे जब बादल
तो बरसने में वक्त लगता है।
खुशी आ रही है
और आएँगीं ही, इन्तजार कर,
जिद्दी दुख-दर्द को टलने में
थोड़ा में वक्त लगता है!
02/06/15 08:59:46: Gurbani Uncle: 😊 Good Morning 😊
Worry is a massive waste of time & energy.
It does not change anything.
All it does is steal your joy😊 & hinder your ability to make POSITIVE changes.
🌹Have a Great Day🌹
02/06/15 09:53:00: Gurbani Uncle: जीवन में कभी किसी से
अपनी तुलना मत कीजिए,
आप जैसे हैं सर्वश्रेष्ठ हैं
ईश्वर की हर रचना अपने
आप में सर्वोत्तम है !!
🌹सुप्रभात🌹
🌹आपका दिन मंगलमय हो🌹
03/06/15 08:41:55: Gurbani Uncle: Psychology facts :
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Couples who spend at least 10 minutes a day laughing together are more likely to have a stronger relationship.
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Any friendship that exceeds the 7 yr mark is more likely to last an entire lifetime.
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You can judge a lot about a person's character by what they laugh at.
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A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of talking about each other.
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Kids who play video games tend to have better hand-eye coordination, a better memory, and better problem solving skills.
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A person is more likely to use " K " in a text message when they have no interest in talking to you.
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75% of women ask questions in which they already know the answer. This is why it's best to simply tell her the truth.
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Everyone has a song in their playlist which they always skip, but never delete.
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People who talk to themselves are more likely to have a high I.Q.
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If you chew gum when you study a subject and then chew the same flavor when you the take the test it can help you remember.
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Your body is actually designed to get 4 hours of sleep twice per day instead of 8 hours once!
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Over thinking can cause physical and mental fatigue, it may also lead to chronic depression.
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Ironically, sometimes the people who don't talk to you are the one's who really want to.
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Psychology says, the best things in life are usually found when you are not looking for them.
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According to old myths, the inability to fall asleep at night means you're awake in someone's dream
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Smiles have been proven to be more attractive on a woman's face than makeup.
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Lack of sleep makes it difficult to control emotions which is why people are more likely to cry or laugh uncontrollably at night.
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You were smiling while reading this message.
Keep smiling it suits you😃😃
03/06/15 09:25:20: Gurbani Uncle: Can u judge who is the better person out of these 3 ?
Mr A - He had frienship with bad politicians, consults astrologers, two wives, chain smoker, drinks eight to 10 times a day.
Mr B - He was kicked out of office twice, sleeps till noon, used opium in college & drinks whiskey every evening.
Mr C - He is a decorated war hero,a vegetarian, doesn't smoke , doesn't drink and never cheated on his wife.
You would want Mr.C rite.
But..
Mr. A was Franklin Roosevelt!
Mr. B was Winston Churchill!!
Mr C Was ADOLF HITLER!!!
Strange but true..
Its risky to judge anyone by his habits !
Character is a complex phenomenon.
So every person in ur life is important ,don't judge them ,accept them.
😄😃😀🆖😀😃😄
04/06/15 08:35:40: Gurbani Uncle: जब मैं 3 वर्ष का था तब मैं यह सोचता था की मेरे पिता दुनिया के सबसे मजबूत और ताकतवर इंसान हैं
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जब मैं 6 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने महसूस किया की मेरे पिता दुनिया के सबसे ताकतवर ही नहीं सबसे समझदार इंसान भी हैं
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जब मैं 9 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह महसूस किया की मेरे पिता को दुनिया की हर चीज़ के बारे में ज्ञान है
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जब मैं 12 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह महसूस करने लगा की मेरे दोस्तों के पिता मेरे पिता से ज्यादा समझदार हैं
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जब मैं 15 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह महसूस किया की मेरे पिता को दुनिया के साथ चलने के लिए कुछ और ज्ञान की ज़रूरत है
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जब मैं 20 वर्ष का हुआ तब मुझे यह महसूस हुआ की मेरे पिता किसी दूसरी दुनिया के हैं और यह मेरी सोच के साथ नहीं चल सकते
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जब मैं 25 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह महसूस किया की मुझे किसी भी काम के बारे में अपने पिता से सलाह नहीं करनी चाहिए क्योंकि उन्हें हर काम में कमी निकलने की आदत सी पड़ गयी है
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जब मैं 30 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैं यह महसूस करने लगा की मेरे पिता को मेरी नक़ल करने से कुछ समझ आ गयी है
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जब मैं 35 वर्ष का हुआ तब मुझे लगा की छोटी मोती बातों में उनसे सलाह ली जा सकती है
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जब मैं 40 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह महसूस किया की कुछ ज़रूरी बातों में सलाह लेनी चाहिए
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जब मैं 50 वर्ष का हुआ तब मैंने यह फैसला किया की अपने पिता की सलाह के बिना कुछ नहीं करना चाहिए क्योंकि मुझे यह ज्ञान हो चूका है की मेरे पिता दुनिया के सबसे समझदार व्यक्ति हैं पर इससे पहले मैं यह समझ पाता और अपने फैसले पर अमल कर पाता मेरे पिता जी इस संसार को अलविदा कह गए और मैं अपने पिता की हर सलाह और तजुरबे से वंचित रह गया
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